Wednesday, January 13, 2016

I'm Lookin' For A List-Fitter...

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Breaking News- Stop the presses! Hold the phones! Console your trembling puppies! I want a man.

BUT not just any man. 

I've always been told that I have very high standards when it comes to what I want in a future husband. Maybe you have too; and even if no one has specifically said it, you probably can relate. That's a good thing. The man that one day you will promise to "love, honor, and cherish till death do you part" is not someone to consider lightly- not something to just settle on. However, it's one thing to say you have high standards, and another thing entirely to actually mean it. 

Ladies, it's time we get specific!

I'm going to share with you a small piece of my own personal journal to help illustrate what I mean, this will literally be a direct quote from my own prayer and searching. 

So, here goes... something? 


  • I want a man who loves me fully, but always loves our Lord more.
  • I want a man who doesn't just read his Bible, but also hides it in his heart.
  • I want a man who not only stores up Scripture, but also is able to wield it in the face of temptation and attack.
  • I want a man who not only will worship with hands raised during a powerful song, but also with have a spirit of worship in the quiet day-to-day life.
  • I want a man who will sing "Blessed Be You Name" during the times "that are plentiful", but also will honestly cry "I will praise You in this storm" during the hard ones.
  • I want a man who isn't just seen praying out loud in public, but also is on his knees in unrecognized quiet.
  • I want a man who not only prays for me, but also prays over me.
  • I want a man who not only opens my mind to his ideas and thoughts, but also opens his to mine.
  • I want a man who will be tender and loving to our children, but also will refuse to "spare the rod."
  • I want a man who is tough, level-headed, and a protector, but also is able to be sensitive to my fears and emotions.
  • I want a man who doesn't just open doors for me, but also guides me away as they close.
  • I want a man who loves and respects his mother, but also is able to "leave and cleave" to me alone.
  • I want a man who not only allows me to hold his hand, but also wants to hold mine.
Now this, by no means, is a completed list. It's merely the first 2 pages. I encourage you, fellow young women, to create a list of your own. You can tell from my list that it has a good mix of both spiritual attributes and physical qualities; and that's how it should be, I believe. Go for it. Take your time. PRAY OVER IT. PRAY AS YOU WRITE IT. 

The same goes for you, young men. Make a list for what you would want in a wife. Not only will it challenge you now, it will also be a reference point for the future when you're seeking out that potential woman.

One More Thing:

Whether you're a lady or a gent, I urge you to make your list based on God's Word. Anything without God will fail. Search Scripture for what qualities a godly husband or wife should possess and write those down. Remember, as you get specific with your standards for your future spouse, God is already preparing a person who not only meets those, but who is also looking for someone who meets theirs. Align yourself with God and He'll make you someone's list-fitter. :) 

"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."
[Matthew 6:33 NIV]

What would you add to my list? Guys, what are some things that you'd put on yours?p

Friday, January 8, 2016

What's Wrong With The Old You?

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So, the New Year is like a week old already and yet people are still hanging on to that “New Year, New You” bandwagon.  You dedicated last year to getting fit, staying active, and eating healthier. You wrote inspirational quotes on notecards and taped them all around your house. You ‘unfriended’ those people that sucked the life and happiness out of your life. You tried really hard to be a nicer person and to control that one area that always seems to trip you up. Overall, last year’s resolutions turned out great. Why, then, does everyone keep pushing all that stuff down your throat? Since you did so well last year, can’t you just “Keep-on Keepin-on” with the old you? 

Being that it is a new year, I really want to jump back and just cover the basics for a bit. While you’re getting to know me through these posts, I still don’t know anything about you. To the coding of this site, you’re just another number; just another notification that someone viewed my blog. However, to me and, most importantly, to The Lord, know that you are worth so much more; because He’s told us so. That’s why I want to take this- my first post of the new year- as an opportunity to share with you the gospel that I talk so much about throughout my posts. Even if you already know what I’m about to say, I ask that you stick it out and bear with me here. It couldn’t hurt, right?

I’m gonna keep this simple. There’s no reason for fluff and niceties between friends, right?

The fact of the matter is that the whole Gospel can be summed up in this: Christ stripped each of us of our sins and wore them himself. He bore the death penalty; once and for all. Through His resurrection, He defeated the enemy- Satan- and bridged the gap between us and God. [1 Peter 2:24]

You See…

 God created people to glorify Him.

He created us to have a personal relationship with Him.

He didn’t, however, want a bunch of mindless robots. So He gave us free choice.

He gave us the ability to make our own decisions; namely, the ability to choose whether to accept Him or reject Him.

With that free choice, people chose sin.  [Romans 3:23]

The only penalty for sin is death. [Romans 3:23]
        This fact isn’t cruel or heartless. This fact doesn’t change just how much God loves us.

What this fact does do, though, is it proves just how holy God is.

He is so holy that even the tiniest bit of anger or the first unkind thought is more than enough to create a massive chasm between God and us.

Thanks to Adam (The first man created and the first man to sin), each of us are born into sin. [1 Corinthians 15:22]

We don’t actually have to do anything wrong to be a sinner. That first sin cursed every person ever conceived by man.

We, as sinners, are each sentenced to death; Death via eternal separation from God in hell. [Luke 13:5]

How can a loving God send people to hell? He doesn’t.

People choose it.

How do people choose hell?

They reject Christ crucified. 
     They refuse the fact that Christ died in their place. They reject His free gift of salvation. They make a physical choice to continue in their sin forever. [John 3:36]

Every person is faced with this same choice at some point in their lives.

Your time is now. 

     You’ve heard the gospel. I just told it to you. You have no excuse anymore. This may be your first chance; it may be your last chance.

If you choose right now to reject Christ, then nothing more I say can help you. You’ve doomed yourself.

BUT

If you choose right now to accept Christ’s free gift of salvation, keep reading.

It’s at this point where many would lead you through the “sinner’s prayer” (or something of the sort). I’m not going to do that. The Bible never tells us a list of magic words to say that earn us salvation. It does, however, tell us this:

“He (an unsaved sinner just like you and I all once were) then asked, “What must I do to be saved?” The reply was: “Believe in the Lord Jesus and you WILL BE SAVED.” (Acts 16:31)

Also This:

“If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus IS Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you WILL BE SAVED. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified (pronounced innocent of sin), and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.” (Romans 10:9-10)

Easy as that. You just agree with God that you are, inherently and willingly, a sinner (you both were born with the nature and have chosen to sin on your own), and ask Him to forgive you of that- accepting Christ’s gift of salvation.  It’s at this point that He will fill you with the Holy Spirit and transform you into a new creation. [2 Corinthians 5:17]

So what’s wrong with the old you?

That’s just it; it’s old; and I’m not talking about your diet, lifestyle, fitness program or beauty processes. In comparison with whether you are saved or not, all of that stuff is just worthless nonsense. Don’t allow yourself to feel comfortable in the old. 

As believers, there’s always room for reevaluation, so we should never be content in the same-old-same.

If you aren’t a believer at all, then you’re a lost soul. You need to seriously take into consideration what I’ve just said; not because I said anything special, but because your eternity with or without God hangs in the balance. I’ll be praying for you.

If you just accepted that free gift of salvation, all of heaven rejoices with you as a new creation in Christ; a new You! Congratulations, my friend! Even if we never meet here on this earth, I can’t wait to meet you in heaven.


Well. Don’t stop now! Go on and work towards an even better version of that NEW YOU! Read God’s Word. Spend time with Him in prayer. Seek out other believers to fellowship with and learn from. Oh, and read some of my other posts! :) Let me know what ya think! 

Monday, December 28, 2015

I'm STILL Waiting!

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Just a small word of encouragement for all y’all today:

I was spacing in and out of our morning announcements at our homeschool co-op a couple weeks ago waiting to be dismissed so that I could proceed to teach my pre-k class. There was a devotional being spoken out of Luke 2 and I honestly wasn’t thrilled about another mundane Christmas word. Something she said caught my attention though.

Friday, December 25, 2015

Christmas Isn't About a Baby.

     
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     Christmas isn't about a baby. I mean, Absolutely it's about a Holy, Perfect King clothed in glory who gave it all up to be born an "illegitimate" birth in a stinking, filthy cow-pen.  Just don't stop there people! Tell the rest of the story.  It's about a perfect man; a cross; an empty tomb and a single open door to heaven. It's about a Savior; About Redemption. Christmas is about Love and self-sacrifice. It's about hope of eternal things and complete joy in the temporary.  It's about lost souls; about forgiveness. It's about a guy named Jesus; the Carpenter's Boy and God's Son.

Sunday, December 20, 2015

The Innkeeper's Savior

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The Innkeeper’s Savior

He awoke with a start and sat straight up in bed;
He blew off the cobwebs by shaking his head.
He blinked in the dark, adjusting his eyes.
His wife still lay snoring, “heh, there’s no surprise!”
He just sat there, quite still, too stunned to perceive.
Yeah, he heard it. He saw it; but could he believe?
A bright light; an angel; a deep, booming voice;
A task, special mission; a cause to rejoice.

Now becoming more conscious, he turned to his wife.
He had to inform her, this could change their whole life!
He shook her. She swatted; but this was no time to fold.
When you’re given big news, it has to be told!
So he shook a bit harder and called out her name.
He’d eventually wake her if he kept with the game.
Whether she sensed his excitement, or felt his stiff poke,
To him made no difference when she finally woke.

He’d been leaning in when she started to stir.
Now they had matching bumps and a slight achy blur.
“What is it?” She growled. “It’s not even dawn!”
This lack of excitement he hadn’t planned on.
While rubbing his head, he took a deep breath.
She took this moment to ask “Is it life or death?”
Knowing her patience would quickly elapse,
He began to describe what he could yet grasp.

“I saw it my dear; or, I heard it, more so.
A vision; An angel with bright, blinding glow.
He had a scroll in his hand and a sword at his side.”
The man stretched out his arms, “His wings were this wide!
The angel took the scroll and busted the seal.
I’m tellin’ you darling, he was the real deal!”
With his eyes now adjusted, he could make out her face.
His wife gave him that look, so he cut to the chase.

“The angel, he told me, that within a few days;
Something would happen for which we’ve prayed.
The Leader, our Conqueror, the King of the Jews-
Would stay in this town and it’d be our inn He’d use!
He said to prepare, to make everything fine.
So, let’s ready the room and bust out the good wine!
We’d better get to it, I don’t know when He’ll come.
I don’t know what He’ll look like, or where He’ll be from.”

It was then that he finished, his vision now said.
His wife made a face and then shifted in bed.
With daylight approaching he could more clearly see-
The surprise on her face, her eyes filled with glee.
“You mean to tell me,” her voice soft and low,
That Rome’s biggest threat has no place to go?
That He’d pick this little dump in this little town?
Why, there’s a much better place just a few houses down!”

He understood her dismay, for he felt it himself.
This place had cracks in the ceiling and dust on each shelf.
But no matter the reason that they’d been picked out,
They’d make this place something worth talking about.
“Let’s get to work, honey, there’s no time to waste!”
So they rose from their bed and got ready with haste.
After a quick bite to eat and a wash of the face,
They set out to clean the best room in the place.

They aired out the curtains and swept clean the floors.
They washed all the bedsheets and re-hung the doors.
With a bit of warm water, the room almost shone.
Who knew this old building could feel like a home?
With days turning to weeks, they just kept it up.
They repaired the ceiling and washed every cup.
But before they’d turn in, they’d give one last sweep-
To the best room in the house; where their hero would sleep.

Just a few months later, their lives changed a bit:
New leader; A census; Every town would be hit!
People would travel from far city and town-
To get back to their home-place and put their name down.
To the innkeeper and wife, this was a great win.
They were right where they should be and they owned an inn!
They could fill up each night, not room left to be sold;
Except one for the guest that the angel foretold.

They’d keep that room empty, in its spotless way;
No one would spoil it as they awaited the day.
The day that a man, so mighty and strong-
Would ride into town with his army along.
The day that their problems and burdens abound-
Would be stripped from their backs and kicked ‘cross the ground.
The day of conquest in the year of our Lord;
When Rome would crumble under his mighty sword.

The streets soon were filled. The town burst at its seams,
With people and donkeys and oxen, in teams.
From such complete chaos, the innkeeper was right.
For weeks they were solid, booked full each night.
Patience wore thin and tempers shot high;
Rome messed up their lives without batting an eye.
The hope of a victor faded slowly each day.
The thought of a vision would soon pass away.

But that room stayed empty, though they wanted its space.
They turned people away for not using the place.
His wife grew concerned that he’d dreamt the whole thing.
That there never was an angel and there’d be no king.
She trusted her husband. He kept of the same mind.
She might confront him one day, but it wasn’t the time.
By the end of the day, they were bone-tired and beat.
With so many people, who had time for a seat?

One particular night, he remembered quite well.
It was extra dark out, although, who could tell?
Hardly a star up above to light up the sky.
There had been not a cloud, so he wasn't sure why.
People were leaving just as fast as they'd come;
But there'd always be others from where they came from.
There were boat-loads of faces and pages of names,
But one couple stood out as not-quite-the-same.

Their clothes were all ragged, their faces sunk in.
The man was quite tall, although gangly and thin.
She was hunched over and notic'bly round.
She looked about ready to just lie on the ground.
The man draped his arm and supported her frame.
When the innkeeper came out, he said "Joseph's the name.
We’re from out of town, from quite far away.
We wondered if you had a spare place to stay?

You see, my wife’s time is soon and she needs her rest.
Trav’ling all this distance hasn’t offered the best.”
Joseph looked at the keeper, and awaited reply.
Suspense made it feel like hours flew by.
“I’m sorry my boy,” the innkeeper said,
“But we’re all full up. Haven’t even one bed.”
The answer came smoothly, without even a rasp.
It was then that poor woman let out a shrill gasp.

The keeper’s wife came behind to see the alarm;
With such a pitched note there just had to be harm.
She found the young woman hunched over in pain,
And her young man’s face had complete color-drain.
She rushed to her side and set her straight on that stoop.
Both men were frozen, completely out of the loop!
The young girl was so worn, like she’d lived a hard climb.
She grabbed her man’s hand and said “Joseph, it’s time.”

With no room in their inn, at least so they told,
They left her deliver outside in the cold.
With the animals moved, a cave was their place.
The women went to work, the men had to pace.
What started at sunset went well into the night.
It took hours of torment and lots of sheer fight.
And then sometime in the dark, on an unmarked day,
A baby was born and then laid in the hay.

Whether what they were told, or the truth in their heart,
The inn-couple knew that they had to restart.
The angel’s message was not one of brute might;
But rather, a baby, born this very night.
A message of hope; A message of love;
A message of God coming down from above.
This baby, their Savior; the one the angel foretold.
Now, their great job was to get him out of the cold!

Once extra guests left, and the angels were through,
The innkeeper and wife did what they had to do.
That special guest room was the new family’s place.
The keepers closed the door and just thanked God for grace.
They had missed the whole point of what the angel said.
They’d made room for the ‘finest’ and left Christ with no bed.
They had lost sight of God and just worshiped the thought.
Our Lord isn’t honored in what’s trimmed up and bought.

Don’t Ever Let That Happen To You.

Elecia Hoffman, Dec. 2015